26 Dec 2010

Merry Christmas!

Dancing round the Christmas tree, a Scandinavian tradition.Picture taken on Christmas Eve.

That's a tradition I learned last year from Maria, who's from Sweden. This Christmas we had a Dane who suggested we dance (a very slow dance, aka walking) around the Christmas tree after the candles were lit and the Christmas story read.

11 Dec 2010

An empty chair

Two of my Swedish friends went to Oslo yesterday for the Nobel Peace Prize, while I watched the ceremony live on the Internet.

The empty chair in Oslo City Hall reminded me of the empty pulpit from Monday.

The symbolism was strong, the pain was real.

The speech read by the Norwegian actress Ullman was moving.

Who could have said he/she has no enemies? Who could have said he/she doesn't hate?

In this season of Advent, I'm still expecting...

7 Dec 2010

An empty pulpit

The Advent wreath candles had been lit; the pianist had played and stopped; all of a sudden, the air became still and the quietness of the chapel was almost touchable. I could hear people behind me turning round by the shuffling sounds of paper, bags and who knew what. A moment of suspension stood in front of us before the piano was played again.

The speaker was nowhere to be seen. The pulpit stood singularly at the left of the chapel; the candles continued to burn without flicker.

The pianist asked us to sing one of the songs in the Taize hymn book.

We sang, dutifully, three times of that short hymn.

Then we stopped; I heard someone breathing heavily.

The speaker was still absent, a very pronounced absence.

We sang another hymn after someone came to the pianist and said a few words in her ears.

The candles went on giving light as if nothing unusual had happened.

Should we sing a third hymn? Let's not worry about what to sing next, there were plenty of songs in that little hymn book.

Then, the speaker walked up and stood in front of the altar, and he began the service in the name of God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

Did I hear a sigh of relief?

Do you know we are in the season of Advent? Do you know its meaning?

It's about waiting.

Waiting, that's what we did in chapel on Monday.

Waiting, that's what the preacher wanted us to experience.

We expected something to happen.

We waited.

Advent is about waiting.

Amen.

(More On, In and Around Mondays here.)

30 Nov 2010

A see-you-suddenly Monday



Ok, what are the chances of bumping into a friend, or more than one friend, when there's a big sales going on and the shopping malls are just flooded with shoppers?

Well, I met 6 on Monday. So let's celebrate and spread our see-you-suddenly tradition.

(More On, In and Around Mondays here.)

24 Nov 2010

A new grandfather

My best friend has become a grandfather today!!!! Wow!!!!

Congratulations!

16 Nov 2010

Fika in HK

Adding finishing touches to a world map while having fika.

Fika is a very important part in the Swedish life. It is like a coffee break. Of course, you don't only drink coffee. There can be cakes, ice cream...whatever you like.

I once said to my Swedish friend who has a Ph.D degree, "The requirement to finish a doctoral degree shouldn't state how many pages of dissertation you should write, but how many fikas you should have." He agreed.

Yesterday (Monday) was the second last day of the Jacobssons' family's stay in HK. We had a "meet-you-suddenly" dinner before we headed for MacDonald's for a fika.

Always fika!!!! Friends, I'll miss you. May God give us the chance to have more fikas together.

(More On, In and Around Mondays here)

4 Nov 2010

All Saints Day

Life is transient.

I went to the TFS cemetary again on Monday evening with about 60 participants of the annual All Saints Day Communion Service. We first gathered by the fish pond at the seminary. All of us were given a candle and a liturgy folder. A Taize hymn was sung before we walked to the cemetary in silence.

Candles had been placed at both sides of our way to lead us. The weather was unually calm. We used to have strong wind blowing out almost all the candles. The absence of street lamps meant we were able to see more stars high above us.

We stood in a circle on the grassy patch of land in the cemetary. The tomb of one of the founders of TFS was there.

We remembered the deceased, our beloved ones.

We were not afraid of death because death had already been defeated.

We shared the holy communion; we shared the peace.

It's my third time to attend this service.

I wondered if it would be my last.

Life is transient.

(More On, In and Around Mondays here)